12 Things you should never say to teachers

#1 "We've all been to elementary school, so aren't we all kind of experts on it?"

Umm, no. You've been sick before, does that make you a doctor?

#2 "When i retire, I still want to do something, so I think I might take up teaching."

Teaching is not a hobby, like gardening or sailing. Teaching will likely make your old job feel

like a vacation.

#3 "Have you ever thought about making your class more fun?"

No, I do my best to make it as boring as I can.

#4 "If you really cared about kids, you wouldn't worry about the salary."

I love my students. I love teaching. I also love being able to support my family and feed my kids."

#5 "If you managed your time at school, I bet you wouldn't need to plan 

lessons and grade on this weekends."

Okay, I'm a little bit busy at school. I teach and work with students almost every moment of the day.

Spending 20 hours a week outside of school on prep and grading every week 

is normal for me.

#6 "You'll never be a truly great teacher until you have your own kids."

Actually, yes I will. The relationship between teacher and student is quite different

from that of parent and child.

#7 "Why do you make them read so much and write so many essays? Why do you give

such hard grades?"

Because it's my job. Because my students are here to learn. Because they 

will need these skills to survive in the world. How many reasons do you need?

#8 "I pay taxes in this district, so technically you work for me."

Sorry, we are not your minions. That's not how it works. Taxes support public goods

and services - such as the fire department, police, parks, and yes, public schools - for the 

community as a whole. And by the way, teachers pay taxes too.

#9 "Ohh, you teach kindergarten, that must be fun. Playing and singing all day."

Yes, my life is just a Disney Movie. I sing and the little children and the little animals 

of the forest come running. Actually, in kindergarten, we teach our students the

foundatonal literacy and math skills - as well as the social and emotional skills - that

set kids up for success in every grade to follow. 

#10 "Why are you so strict? They're just kids."

We make plenty of time for laughter and fun in my classroom. Rules and routine are not only necessary, they help children to feel safe, secure and valued in the classroom community.

#11 "How hard can it be? You have all summer off." 

A longer summer break is one of the benefits of choosing teaching as a career. But keep in mind, It's not all summer, I spend weeks every July and August on professional development and curriculum planning. And during the school year, I work 12 hours a day all week long and at least one day every weekend. Add it up and our vacation days are about the same. 

#12 "Teaching is nice, but don't you want to be more successful and make more money?"

I teach because i want to make a  difference. I teach because what I do every day matters for kids. That what success looks like.